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Whale Watching Exploration: Hidden Challenges Beneath the Waves โ€“ When Sonar Meets Migration



Whale Watching Exploration: Hidden Challenges Beneath the Waves โ€“ When Sonar Meets Migration

Whale watching is one of those rare nature experiences that can transform the way you think about the ocean. In Paths & Patterns, my series on following the rhythms of nature and uncovering the stories beneath the surface, this adventure gave me a front-row seat to the whalesโ€™ migration and the hidden pressures they face. Itโ€™s not just about sightings; itโ€™s about understanding the rhythm of migration. The delicacy of marine ecosystems, and the often unseen forces that shape these majestic giantsโ€™ journeys.

On our day out of San Diegoโ€™s Mission Bay, we boarded one of the fastest vessels on the water, the Hana Hou. Having been whale watching countless times before, and never experiencing anything quite like this, we knew early on this outing was different. This high-speed power catamaran cruises at over 30 mph, covering more ocean and improving sighting chances. We were treated to a few gray whales migrating south, playful dolphins, and sun-bathing sea lions. A vivid reminder of how dynamic and rich these waters can be when conditions align.

Hana Hou Gone Whale Watching Catamaran

But the peaceful picture wasnโ€™t the whole story. As we watched a U.S. Navy warship operating surprisingly close to shore, I had a realization. I thought about the broader pressures whales face. These pressures come not just from nature, but from human activity.


When Sonar Meets Migration: What the Law Says

Whales rely on sound for communication, navigation, feeding, and migration. Yet military sonar, particularly mid-frequency active (MFA) sonar, produces intense underwater noise that can disrupt these behaviors, sometimes with profound consequences. As we watched, the sonar signal we could hear with our human ears was no doubt magnified beneath the ocean, knocking the whales off their migration route and even turning them back north instead of their intended southbound path.

Image of the USS San Diego Navy Ship we witnessed utilizing sonar – DefenseNews.com

Under U.S. law, the Marine Mammal Protection Act (MMPA) and other regulations govern activities that might incidentally impact marine mammals. The National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration (NOAA) Fisheries issues Incidental Take Authorizations (ITAs), which allow limited and unavoidable harmโ€”such as disturbance or injuryโ€”during training and testing while still requiring measures to minimize those effects.

After witnessing the gray whalesโ€™ confusion firsthand, itโ€™s easy to see why environmental groups have fought for stronger constraints on Navy sonar. In Southern California, legal settlements now prohibit mid-frequency active sonar in key feeding and habitat areas, such as between Santa Catalina and San Nicolas Islands and near San Diegoโ€™s whale feeding grounds.

Blue Whale Tail Breaching

Laws Whale Watchers Should Know

Itโ€™s not just Navy sonar that matters. Commercial and recreational boaters are regulated, too. The federal government, through NOAA Fisheries and the MMPA, prohibits actions that harass or disturb marine mammals, including approaching them too closely or causing them to change their natural behavior.

Vessels like the one we were traveling on are generally expected to maintain respectful distances, often hundreds of yards depending on species and location. The vessels avoid pursuing or encircling animals. Once our captain realized the whales were being turned around, we left the area to give them space to return to their intended path. These guidelines are more than etiquette; theyโ€™re enforceable under federal law, and reporting violations can help protect these magnificent creatures.

Gray whales surfacing – Expedition with Gone Whale Watching

Whale & Wildlife Expeditions: Options From Budget to Premium

If youโ€™re planning your own whale watching expedition, whether in San Diego or another coastal destination, thereโ€™s a wide spectrum of tours depending on budget, duration, and how deep you want the experience to be:

  1. Budget-Friendly Voyages ($60โ€“$75)
    City Cruises whale watching tours typically range from $60 to $75 for a standard 2โ€“2.5-hour trip.

TIP: Check other local operators offering short trips. Shorter trips give you a taste of migration without breaking the bank.

2. High-Speed & Small Group Experiences ($60โ€“$110+) Gone Whale Watchingโ€™s Hana Hou offers fast, small-group tours starting around $60, with more intimate encounters thanks to less crowded vessels.

3. Extended & Premium Expeditions ($190โ€“$325)
Longer, 5-hour or extended whale watching and offshore wildlife toursโ€”often during peak blue whale seasonโ€”can cost $190โ€“$325 per person

For a practical checklist to make the most of your whale watching adventure, check out my free downloadable [Fathom the Journey – Whale Watching Exploration Guide below], designed to help you see more, stay safe, and fully enjoy the journey.


Final Thoughts: Whales, Waves, and What We Leave Behind

Whale watching is more than a bucket-list activity. Itโ€™s a front-row seat to the vulnerability and resilience of some of the planetโ€™s most magnificent creatures. Beyond the whale blows, deep dives, and playful dolphins, we get a glimpse of the complex pressures these animals navigate every day.

In Paths & Patterns, I focus on observing these rhythms, whether in whales, birds, or other wildlife that are affected by human activity, to better understand the delicate balance of marine and wildlife ecosystems. On that San Diego day, watching gray whales glide through the Pacific while a Navy ship loomed nearby was a moment of wonder and reflection.

This is more than a single adventure, itโ€™s part of the Fathom the Journey ethos: where every trip is a story, and every experience is an opportunity to connect, reflect, and explore.

My Favorite Books

95 Books โ€” The Best Books I Read in 2025 (Romance, Mystery, Fantasy & More)

2025 was a year of stories, and I dove headfirst into 95 books! Some made me laugh, some made me stare blankly, and a few I couldnโ€™t stop thinking about long after I turned the last page.

Iโ€™m sharing my favorites, from romance to twisty mysteries, magical fantasies, and everything in between. These are the stories that stuck with me, and that Iโ€™d recommend to anyone looking for a good read.

(Book cover photos and Amazon links included so you can grab them too!)

Here we go!


CONTEMPORARY ROMANCE

Curvy Girl Summer โ€”
Danielle Allen

Joyful, affirming, and totally binge-worthy. This book celebrates self-love, confidence, and a love story that feels real without any sugarcoating. A perfect beach readโ€”or anytime read!


FANTASY

The Maggie Grey Series โ€”
Drew Collins

-The Secret World of Maggie Grey (Book 1)
-The First Family (Book 2)
When a Wolf Loves the Moon (Book 3)
(also published as The Three Brothers
-The Mortal Affairs (Book 4)

This series kept me hooked from page one, every book added more depth, drama, and magic.


MYSTERY

The Perfect Sister Duology โ€” Desirรฉe X. Granger

-The Perfect Sister
-The Perfect Sister 2

Twisty, tense, and family secrets, psychological intrigue, and suspense.


NON-FICTION

Black AF:
The Un-Whitewashed Story of America โ€”
Michael Harriot

Learned so much with this one. Thought-provoking. Not an easy read, but a necessary one. Michael Harriot delivers truth with humor, and major insight.


ROMANCE

The Last Man on Earth: A Survival Romance โ€”
Shae Sanders

A story about connection, love, and resilience. This statement is slightly over used, but itโ€™s an absolute page-turner. You won’t put it down, until you’re done!


SUSPENSE/THRILLER

We Donโ€™t Talk About Carol โ€” Kristen L. Berry

This one kept me wondering and drawing scenarios in my head from start to finish. Cleverly paced, emotionally charged, and suspenseful, perfect for mystery/suspense lovers.


URBAN FICTION

The Delgato Family Universe/Inferno Series โ€” Jahquel J.

There are nearly 20 books in this series. Donโ€™t let that stir you, they are attention holding, action packed, you will be apart of the family once you finish and waiting for the next release.


Budget-Savvy Pro Tip

Your library card is a hidden gem. A lot of these books are available on Libby or Hoopla, free e-books and audiobooks included. No card? You can get a digital one online in minutes.


FINAL THOUGHTS

Reading 95 books in one year was a ride, and it took me a while to narrow down The Best Books I Read in 2025. It was worth the mental recap. Each one entertained me. If you pick up any of these, I hope you enjoy each and every one. If you’ve read any of them, drop a comment below, telling me which one you enjoyed.

Progress, with presence.

Onward, curious
Sharonda

Riparian Preserve at Water Ranch in Gilbert, Arizona Creek
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Riparian Preserve at Water Ranch: Gilbert, Arizona’s Hidden Nature Escape (+Video)

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Riparian Preserve at Water Ranch: Gilbert, Arizonaโ€™s Hidden Nature Escape

Whenever I discover a place that I love, I canโ€™t wait to come back and tell you all about it. The Riparian Preserve at Water Ranch in Gilbert, Arizona was no different. We intended to take a quick one-mile walk, but ended up wandering over two miles. This place was just that captivating.

TIP: Bring a water bottle. Youโ€™ll need it!

A Hidden Gem in the Heart of Gilbert, Arizona

The Riparian Preserve at Water Ranch is a local park managed by the Town of Gilbert. Let me tell you, itโ€™s a magical little world tucked right in the middle of the city. Think Bridge to Terabithia vibes: peaceful, lush, and full of surprises.

When you arrive, youโ€™ll notice a small parking lot on the north side that fills up quickly. If you continue further west, thereโ€™s also a public library with plenty of parking. Yes, you can park there while exploring the Preserve. The parking is free.

What Youโ€™ll Find at the Riparian Preserve

Serene walking path surrounded by lush greenery at the
Riparian Preserve in Gilbert, Arizona.

We didnโ€™t follow a specific trail; we just let curiosity lead the way. That approach turned out to be perfect because thereโ€™s so much to see. Hereโ€™s what you can expect:

  • 110-acre wetland and wildlife sanctuary
  • 7 ponds connected by scenic hiking trails
  • 1 recreational urban fishing lake (fishing license required)
  • 1 floating boardwalk
  • 3 overnight campsites
  • 2 reservable small ramadas
  • 2 restroom facilities (north and south ends)
Serene walking path at the
Riparian Preserve in Gilbert, Arizona.

According to AZCentral, the Riparian Preserve at Water Ranch was created in 1999 to help recycle and replenish groundwater. The preserve also supports native riverside forests and wildlife habitats. Over 70 acres are dedicated to seven recharge basins, which are filled on a rotating basis with treated wastewater. I am always fascinated by how we can re-use our resources time and again.

Nature, Wildlife, and a Touch of Mindfulness

During our walk, we spotted several bird species, squirrels, rabbits, and turtles swimming through the ponds. Me and another trail-walker even discovered some wild mushrooms growing near the trees.

Riparian Preserve at Water Ranch in
Gilbert, Arizona – Turtles

One of my favorite features, were the posted Mental Health Tips along the trails. I thought the mindful health tips was such a thoughtful touch. It made me pause every time and really breathe in the calm of the space.

Whether you are coming for exercise, photography, a quiet moment of reflection, or a family stroll, the Riparian Preserve at Water Ranch lets you choose your own pace. There are benches scattered throughout the trails where you can sit and take it all in.

Would I Go Back?

Absolutely. If youโ€™re looking for peaceful outdoor thing-to-do, this preserve is an absolute must-visit. Itโ€™s beautiful, free, and full of life, literally and figuratively. Let the Riparian Preserve at Water Ranch, in Gilbert, Arizona, remind you how good it feels to just wander.

Plan Your Visit

Riparian Preserve at Water Ranch
2757 E. Guadalupe Road
Gilbert, Arizona 85234

Hours:
Sunday โ€“ Saturday: 5:30 AM โ€“ 10:00 PM

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Waffleto Brunch & Waffles: Worth the Hype or Another Overrated Spot?


Waffleto Brunch & Waffles: Worth the Hype or Another Overrated Spot?

Can We Talk About Social Media Food Hype?

The way I am so tired of over-hyped TikTok and Instagram eateries. Social media has disappointed me too many times with perfect reels, staged bites, and thenโ€ฆ underwhelming food.

So, when my husband showed me an impressively edited reel for Waffleto Brunch & Waffles in Goodyear, AZ, and asked if I wanted to try it, I gave him a non-committal, โ€œI guess.โ€

First Impressions: Busy but Welcoming

We pulled up around 11 a.m. on a Saturday. It was busy, but we didnโ€™t have to wait, major win. The place is a small sit-down brunch spot with a casual, open feel. We were greeted right away and handed menus, which gave us a moment to look things over before ordering.

Waffleto Menu: Sweet Meets Savory

Waffletoโ€™s menu offers hearty savory waffles and over-the-top sweet creations. in a good way:

Savory Options Include:

  • Fried egg, bacon, and spinach
  • Chorizo and egg
  • Grilled chicken with pesto
  • Omelets and traditional breakfast plates (for the non-waffle folks)

Sweet Options:

  • Strawberries and cream (with seasonal berries, but you can request strawberries only)
  • Peaches and cream
  • Nutella-topped waffles

๐Ÿ‘‰ Check out their full menu here

What We Ordered

We split our meal:

  • One Fried Egg, Bacon, and Spinach Waffleto (no syrup drizzleโ€”because I donโ€™t trust the drizzler!)
  • One Berries Waffleto (strawberries only)

You can split your waffle between savory and sweet, which we lovedโ€”it felt like a brunch plate and dessert all in one.

And I have to mention this, the home-fried breakfast potatoes were delicious. I live for a good breakfast potato, and these hit the mark. Crispy on the outside, tender inside, and perfectly seasoned. Donโ€™t skip them.

Watching the Waffle Magic Happen

The open kitchen gave us a view of the action, and I noticed the waffles looked darker than I prefer more brown than golden. Iโ€™m a light, fluffy, slight-crunch-on-the-edge kind of waffle girl.

When I asked about it, our server reassured us that the color comes from the batter, not overcooking, and theyโ€™re still soft inside. She was right. The waffles were perfectly cooked, lightly sweet, and honestly, some of the best Iโ€™ve had.

Is Waffleto Worth the Trip?

If youโ€™re in the Goodyear, Avondale, or West Phoenix areaโ€”yes, Waffleto is worth a stop.

If you have to drive far or wait in a long line? Maybe not. Itโ€™s good, but not a โ€œdrive across the Valley and wait an hourโ€ kind of place. That said, Waffleto delivers on flavor and creativity, and the service was on point.

Waffleto Brunch & Waffles Location + Hours

Heads up: If you love breakfast for dinner, this isnโ€™t your spot. They close early and stick to brunch hours.

๐Ÿ•’ Hours:
Monday โ€“ Friday: 8 AM โ€“ 2 PM
Saturday & Sunday: 8 AM โ€“ 3 PM

๐Ÿ“ 406 N. Litchfield Rd., Ste 208
Goodyear, AZ 85338


Final Thoughts

Waffleto might not be the viral hotspot you travel for, but itโ€™s definitely a local gem if youโ€™re nearby. The flavors are solid, the sweet/savory combo is fun, and the vibe is low-key and relaxed.

Have you tried Waffleto or any other social media-famous food spots that were actually worth it? Let me know in the comments or over on Instagram @SharondaShariee (yes, Iโ€™m posting again!).

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20 Frequent Asked Carnival Cruise Questions Youโ€™re Probably Already Wondering About

20 Frequent Asked Carnival Cruise Questions Youโ€™re Probably Already Wondering About

And yes, Iโ€™ve got answers. Letโ€™s get you cruise-ready, without the overwhelm.

Planning your first (or fifteenth) Carnival Cruise? Whether you’re traveling with your partner, your kids, or your crew, there are always questions that pop up before you set sail. And if youโ€™re anything like me, you want real answers from someone who’s been there, not a maze of fine print (but I include links with all that too).

So I rounded up 20 of the most frequently asked cruise questions, from what to pack to how not to lose your Sail & Sign card. Letโ€™s break it all the way down.


Before You Sail: Planning & Prep

1. Do I need a passport to go on a Carnival Cruise?

If your cruise is closed-loop (starts and ends in the same U.S. port), a birth certificate + photo ID works. But a passport is the safest option in case of emergencies.
โ†’ Carnivalโ€™s official ID requirements

2. Are cruise fares refundable if I canโ€™t go?

It depends on how early you cancel. The closer you get to your sail date, the less youโ€™ll get back.
โ†’ Carnivalโ€™s cancellation policy
Pro tip: Consider adding Carnival Vacation Protection for coverage and peace of mind.

3. Is there a minimum age to cruise?

Yesโ€”6 months old for most cruises, 12 months for longer or exotic ones. And anyone under 21 must sail with someone 25 or older in the same room.
โ†’ Carnivalโ€™s minor guest policy

4. Can I bring my water bottle or canteen?

Yep! Bring your reusable bottle and refill it at water stations onboard. Insulated bottles are clutch for port days.

5. Can I bring snacks or drinks onboard?

You can bring sealed snacks and one 12-pack of non-alcoholic drinks (cans or cartons) per person. No glass bottles, no liquor (unless itโ€™s the one bottle of wine per adult).
โ†’ Carnival beverage policy


Cabins, Cards & Spending

6. How many people can sleep in a stateroom cabin?

Most cabins fit 2โ€“4 people, and some family rooms or suites fit up to 5. For bigger groups, connecting rooms are your best friend.

7. What can I use so I donโ€™t lose my Sail & Sign card?

Get a lanyard with a pouch. It keeps your card handy for everything. Room access, purchases, boarding, and getting on and off the ship at ports of call.

8. Do kids have access to money on the ship?

Yes, through their Sail & Sign card. It works like a debit card onboard.

9. Can I put a spending limit on my childโ€™s Sail & Sign card?

Absolutely! You can cap or block spending for kids and teens right in your Carnival Account or at Guest Services.

10. Are gratuities (tips) included?

Theyโ€™re automatically addedโ€”about $16โ€“$18 per person/day depending on your cabin. You can prepay or adjust onboard.
โ†’ Gratuities explained


Life Onboard: Food, Fun & Feeling Good

11. Whatโ€™s included in the cruise fare?

Your room, all meals (excluding specialty dining), drinks (water, tea, lemondade and juice during breakfast), pools, shows, and onboard activities. Youโ€™ll pay extra for Wi-Fi, excursions, soda, alcohol drinks, and spa services.

12. Is Wi-Fi available on board?

Yes, but itโ€™s not free!  Carnival has 3 plans: Social, Value, and Premium.
โ†’ Carnival Wi-Fi packages

13. Is there bottled water on the ship? How much does it cost?

Yes.. You can pre-order a case to your room or while on the ship through room service.

14. Do people get sick on cruises?

Sometimes. Sea sickness or colds are the most common.
Tips to avoid it:
โ€“ Book a mid-ship, lower deck room
โ€“ Bring Dramamine, Sea-Bands, or ginger chews
โ€“ Drink plenty of water, avoid heavy meals prior to sailing, and get fresh air while on board
โ†’ Carnivalโ€™s health guidelines

15. What should I wear on the cruise?

Daytime: swimsuits, casual wear.
Evening: cruise casual with a couple โ€œCruise Elegantโ€ nights (think cocktail dresses or slacks & button-ups).
โ†’ Carnival dress code


In Port & On Excursions

16. Are shore excursions worth it?

Yes, if you want more than beach time or walking along the piers. Carnival offers excursions for every vibe. Relaxing, adventurous, foodie approved. You can also wait and book an excursion on your own.ย  Just donโ€™t miss that ship. No, but seriously, donโ€™t miss the ship.

17. Is cruising good for families or couples?

Both. Thereโ€™s something for everyone: waterparks and kidsโ€™ clubs for families, adults-only spaces and spas for couples. You set the tone and the vibe you want to have while sailing.


Packing & Practical Tips

18. What should I NOT pack for a cruise?

Leave these at home:
โ€“ Irons or steamers
โ€“ Candles/incense
โ€“ Drones
โ€“ Surge protectors
โ€“ Alcohol (unless itโ€™s your one wine bottle)
โ†’ Carnival prohibited items

19. How do I stay in touch with my family and friends that are on the ship?

Use the Carnival Hub app to chat for just $5 per person (no Wi-Fi plan needed).
Some families also bring mini walkie-talkies. Great for kids or those who donโ€™t use phones much. Just know the signal works best on open decks.

20. Is cruising worth it?

Absolutely. You unpack once, wake up somewhere new every day, and everything you need is right there on the ship. Whether you want relaxation, nonstop fun, or a little of both, youโ€™re covered.


Final Cruise Tips from Me to You:

โ€“ Download the Carnival Hub App before you board
โ€“ Bring a power strip (non-surge) for extra outlets
โ€“ Take a photo of your passport and ID just in case
โ€“ Donโ€™t forget meds, sunscreen, and comfy shoes
โ€“ Pack the patience, good vibes, have a blast


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Let me know what else you’re curious aboutโ€”if youโ€™re wondering, someone else probably is too. I got you!